This young mother’s post about depression is very real and relatable

A 25-year-old mother shared this photo to talk about her depression.

US-based Brittany Ernsperger, a 25-year-old young mother’s post on depression went viral after she wrote about the reality of what it feels like to be depressed. Ernsperger posted a photograph of clean dishes on her kitchen counter and captioned it “This is what depression looks like”.

Since posting it on Facebook, her post has been shared by over 2 lakh people because of how relatable it is. One comment reads, “This is one of the best descriptions I’ve heard for depression/anxiety and it really helps to end the stigma attached to mental health issues (and) to show it in a nice normal looking family kitchen… kudos to you for sharing your struggle!” Another reads, “This is the story of my life.”

Ernsperger’s candid message about living with depression resonated with thousands of people who shared her post and tagged friends. Many people called it “honest”.

Ernsperger writes below her photo,

“This is what depression looks like. No. Not the clean dishes. But that there were that many dishes in the first place; that I’ve gone 2 weeks without doing them. 3 days ago I sat on the kitchen floor and stared at them while I cried. I knew they needed to be done. I wanted to do them so bad.

But depression pulled me under. It sucked me in. Like a black hole. Rapidly, sinking quick-sand.

I walked by them morning and night and all day long. And just looked at them. Telling myself that I could do them. Telling myself that I would. And feeling defeated everyday that I didn’t. Making the depression only that much worse because not accomplishing something that needs to be done is failure.

She further adds, “Depression is something that “strong” people don’t talk about because they don’t want people to think they’re “weak”. You’re not weak. You’ve been strong for so long and through so many things, that your body needs a break.”

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China’s fintech revolution is potentially ‘a very big risk,’ says finance president

Vince Zhang, President of Phoenix Finance, speaks during Fireside Chat on Day 3 of CNBC East Tech West on November 29, 2018 in Nansha, Guangzhou, China.

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Vince Zhang, President of Phoenix Finance, speaks during Fireside Chat on Day 3 of CNBC East Tech West on November 29, 2018 in Nansha, Guangzhou, China.

The sheer number of fintech companies setting up in China has the potential to become “a very big risk,” according to the president of Chinese financial investment platform, Phoenix Finance.

Speaking at CNBC’s East Tech West conference in the Nansha district of Guangzhou, China, Vince Zhang said many of the country’s estimated tens of thousands of financial technology firms lack the controls to make them sound instruments, either for consumers or the wider economy.

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“A lot of companies are not (there) in terms of their business plan, in terms of their risk management process, in terms of their overall management,” told the Financial Times’ Louise Lucas Thursday. “A lot of these corporate control mechanisms are not in place.”

In recent years, China has seen a surge in the number of companies trying to harness technology to capitalize on what Zhang described as China’s “fintech revolution” and capture the country’s many millions of previously unbanked consumers. For other industries, that technological drive may be “okay,” said Zhang; but “for anything related to financial services, (it) is pretty dangerous,” he said.

“Without proper risk control mechanism personnel, without proper ways of communicating with regulation, it’s potentially becoming a very big risk going forward.”

Zhang called for more regulation in the space, particularly with regard to consumer protection and risk control. He says he foresees that taking shape from next year, as the issue gains greater prominence on the national agenda.

“I would predict in 2019 it’s becoming more regulated,” said Zhang. “There will be less and less players in this field.”

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